• Arlinda Fasliu

How to Study Abroad

Updated: Apr 24, 2019



RABAT, MOROCCO--- " What do you want?" It’s the infamous question that is on the lips of Ryan Gosling as he shouts at Rachel McAdams in The Notebook. The question that is shouted at friends as you are almost in the drive through of a taco bell. These words rang in the windowless caverns in your mind as you looked in the mirror and cried to yourself listening to Avril Lavigne on your CD player.These words should ring through you as you are searching for a program to study abroad.

Studying abroad seems like an easy task to some- to those that may already have the exact idea of what they want and the money to pay for it. However, the reason why most people “ooohh and ahhh” when they hear you are studying abroad is because it truly does take effort to finally step foot on that plane.

“I want to go to an Arabic speaking country. I want to have fun. I want to be able to afford it, and I want it to matter towards my future career.”

These were the things that were on my mind when I was searching for a program. Everyone has a different vision of what they want.

#1 Write it Down


Write it down. Sit there and write down what you want. Remember last time you called in to order a pizza but you were too drunk to know what you wanted? Don’t do that with study abroad.

#2 Research


Look at reviews online. Talk to the study abroad office. Talk to someone that was in the program- preferably two people. And before you pick up the phone to call, know what kind of pizza you want dude!

A Peek Into my Program:

I’ve…

  • Been in a homestay

  • Gone on a week-long road trip around Morocco

  • Been expected to learn one new chapter of my Arabic text book every 2 days

  • 2 oral presentations in front of everyone in the program

  • Do online courses for journalism

  • Attend and participate in class lectures

  • Try to maintain the website for the program that posts news created through the students

  • Have readings done before class to discuss

  • Interview people and write stories when I don’t speak fluent Arabic or French

It. Is. A lot. I’ve simultaneous met and talked to professors, authors, public figures in government, professional kickboxers, and rad ass activists. It feels like a lot of work, but then

I’ve also…

  • Seen the high atlas-mountains

  • Sang and danced with a group of girls from Ourzazat

  • Volunteered feeding the stray cats and dogs of the city

  • Met an underground DJ and been at an electronic dance party in the middle of nowhere

  • Sang Sam Smith with street artists in front of a crowd in the park

  • Tasted the adventures of the sea side and met some cool surfer gals

  • Slept under the stars of the Sahara

  • Went to a rooftop pool party in Marrakesh

  • Spent a week in a village stay making friends and learning about rural Morocco

  • Worked for a month on my own story reporting with two awesome chicks

It’s hard and time management is everything, but don’t mistake yourself for a study abroad martyr. Do what is best for you. After all, this is your experience. The first person you must please is yourself. #selflove

#3 Be Flexible

There are countless people that are a part of keeping a program running. A lot of the time programs in the US can feel secure about certain aspects of planning and politics. Other times, like when your country’s president acts as reverse Oprah taking away rights as if everyone is being given a gift from the gods:

“You lose your rights, AND YOU LOSE YOUR RIGHTS and you too! YOU. ALL. LOSE. YOUR. RIGHTS!” Then, things get complicated.

Think of that inconsistency of stability when you travel. With a program that centers in journalism, you must learn to be flexible. As my teacher told one of our classmates

“This is where type A people come to die”

Things won’t always be perfect. The host family could be using you to be able to pay for hot water, your teachers could not be giving you enough feedback or you could flat out realize this is not what you wanted at all.

Please. For the love of all that is holy. If you see something, say something.


No one is a psychic. The sooner you learn that, the better. Programs will shift with every country, director or instructor. The worst thing you can do is waste your time complaining about it.

Don’t get me wrong. Venting is good, until you allow it to enable you. If you stop at the point of realizing there are walls in front of you, then, you will rot and die waiting for them to crumble before your eyes.

Do I wish everything was perfect in my program? Sure. Are any of my classes back home perfect? Not by a long shot.

I had one friend that left the program after the first week and focused on her own thing. That is called being proactive.

In the infamous words of our lord and savior, actual cannibal, Shia LeBuff, “Don’t let your dreams be dreams, just do it.”


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